UNFRIEND. usually, u may find it kat facebook laa, kan?
and one more thing, menurut satu sumber, UNFRIEND is an offiicial word. based pade 2009 Oxford Dictionary it is defined as - to remove someone as a friend on a social networking site.
have you ever been removed?
ataupun..
pernah tak korang me'remove' orang?
oh! yes, i have. for both situation.
so...ape nak buat kalau kite di remove?
1. find the reasons why
selalunye la kan..if we are being removed, mesti ade something yang membuatkan orang tu rase nak remove kite. like, we are posting too many unimportant posts, or, maybe, they are bothered with what we always do on facebook, and paling obvious, they don't like us. but sometimes...jealousy may also be the reason!
2. get ready!
get ready for the truth..it cannot be denied, and yet, it might hurt. tipula kalau tak terasa. even sikit! if u guys have the guts for asking the reason. then u can do it. tapi, if it was me, i will just ignore it. oh yeah, i don't see it as something important! and i won't desperately add them back. let it be just like that. alah, facebook je pun, it's not a real life.
3. reflect ourselves
that is the most important thing! personally, i have been removed for the reasons that i did not know why. the only thing that i could think of was that - they don't like me. but it was okay. they weren't important for me. and if they are on my list pun, i never talked to them, so..it did not give me effect ape2 pun bile diorang removed. plus, whenever we bumped into each other pun, mmg tak tegur. so never mind!
so...is it wrong to remove someone from facebook, especially?
i did remove many persons. for the reasons that i did not know them at all. why should they be on my list kalau aku tak kenal dorang.
it's not that aku tak suke diorang. i don't even hate them. it is just for my own good. aku just tak nak tengok things that may hurt me, later on. so, the only way yang aku boleh pikir - removing. and that is not the right way, though!
never mind. it is just a social networking!
chill ^ ^
3 dissatisfactions:
removed and di removed berlaku atas sebab2 tertentu. kalau kita yg d remove, mesti kita teringgiiin mau tau kenapa kan huhu
sakit tgok pe?
etong, yup! wondering why :)
anon, tengok ape yang kite tak suke la..:)
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